Hi there, and welcome! I’m so glad you’re here.
Back in 2012, I became a mama for the very first time. I gave birth to my sweet boy, completely unaware of the whirlwind that was about to come. I had no clue what I was doing. Like, truly no clue. No guidebook, no plan, just a lot of diapers and a whole lot of guesswork. I figured it out as I went, fumbling my way through sleepless nights, endless questions, and emotions I wasn’t prepared for.
That lack of preparation led me into a deep postpartum depression – something I didn’t even know how to name at the time. It felt isolating and overwhelming, especially as I tried to heal from an emergency c-section while caring for a brand-new life. I was in survival mode, and the idea of ever having another child was too terrifying to even consider.
Fast forward to today, my firstborn is now 13 years old and older brother to my now 6 month old. He is the most kind, thoughtful, witty, and best big brother I could have ever hoped for. Looking at him now, I’m reminded that even in the midst of uncertainty and fear, things can fall into place. And somehow, despite all the chaos and doubt, love wins.
When I found out I was pregnant again, I was still scared. But this time, I wanted to do things differently. I wanted to be prepared. So I leaned in. I made lists, researched everything, and checked off tasks one by one. That mindset helped ease so much anxiety, and I can honestly say this pregnancy has been a million times smoother than my first. Even my c-section was scheduled this time around, which made recovery so much easier, both physically and emotionally.
That’s why I created Dear Mama To Be. I wanted to build a space for expecting moms who are trying to find their way, whether it’s your first baby or your fifth.
Every mama’s journey is different. What works for one might not work for another, and that’s perfectly okay. Here, I’m just sharing what’s helped me navigate motherhood in my own beautifully messy way, alongside my husband, our two beautiful boys, and our four furry companions. This blog is a little slice of our life. It’s also a fun creative outlet for me, and if even one post helps another mama feel a little more seen or a little more prepared, then that’s the best bonus I could ask for.
We may not have all the answers, but together, we’ll figure it out.
With love,
Rose —
Mama to Chase + Jett ❤
